Marriage Workshops For Healthy Marriages-Tune Up For Marriage

I saw a show recently where a happily married couple decided to go to marriage workshops for healthy marriages. Their friends were wondering what was wrong and were worried. After all, we are used to people getting help when their marriage is already on the brink but not when things are going well. The couple were planning on having a baby and thought getting a "tune up" was just a good idea. It was. Turns out that they had a lot of pent up resentments that neither of them were aware of. They ended up making things work out but it did take some work and some time. If you think about it, it's actually kind of dumb. Our marriages are the single biggest and most important relationship we will ever have (except for the one we have with our kids). Why not keep it healthy? We take our cars in for preventative maintenance once in a while even when there doesn't seem to be anything wrong. We go to the doctor once a year for a checkup when there are no obvious signs of trouble. Why not go to marriage workshops for healthy marriages to make sure our marriage is going well and on the right track? The truth is that just like your car or your health, your marriage can seem to be healthy but in reality there is some trouble brewing right under the surface. Neither of you may actually be aware of it on a conscious level, but it's there. Why wait until it blows up and becomes a huge problem, why not try to nip it in the bud? Whether we like it or not, resentments can and do build up, even in good marriages. Misunderstandings, the occasional inappropriate comment, these things can not only sting at the time, they can also hide just below the surface and fester. We may not be aware of them, but they are almost always there. Left on their own they might not ever become a problem. but when (or if) something happens in the marriage that heightens the stress and tension, those little sores that have been festering can often explode all at once. That is why getting the occasional checkup for your marriage is a great idea. A counselor is a great source of help because they can see things you and your partner might be too close to see. And once they have seen some sign of trouble, they can help you form a plan to navigate around that issue. It's always easier to deal with something while it is still small and pretty insignificant. It's much harder to deal with something once it has gotten huge and the anger has grown. Hopefully you and your spouse are very happy in your marriage. And, hopefully, your resentments and anger are few and far between, but even so, if you want to maintain your healthy relationship going to marriage workshops for healthy marriages might help you avoid any potential blowups in the future. And who wouldn't want that?